Why Every writer struggles with self-doubt
Hey, friends!
Do you ever recognize the feelings of self-doubt or catch yourself in that thought cycle of "I'm not good enough"?
Don’t worry, self-doubt is a universal experience for writers, especially when you're just starting out. If this sounds familiar, welcome to the author's journey—you're in the write place. 😉
Today, I want to share with you two key reasons why every writer, no matter where they are in their journey, will face self-doubt. There are many reasons, but these two stand out to me the most from my own experience.
1. The Nature of Creativity
Creativity is exhilarating. It hits you like a shot of espresso—buzzing, electric, and exciting, urging you to take action and start creating. But here's the thing: as much as creativity is thrilling, it can also make you feel vulnerable. And that vulnerability often leads to uncertainty.
"Is it good enough?" "Will people like it?" "Who do I think I am, Margaret Atwood?"
This is the fear that no matter how much time, love, and effort you pour into your work, it might never be good enough. That you might never be good enough. But here's the truth: perfect doesn't have to be perfect. It just has to be done.
This is where many writers get tripped up: we believe the first draft needs to be a masterpiece before anyone else sees it. In reality, the "gold" is often hidden in a rough draft—sometimes buried under layers of mistakes, doubts, and revisions. The process of writing is all about evolution, not a single brilliant moment of inspiration (though let’s admit, sometimes we do nail a perfect line or two).
So, remember: writing is a process. It’s about showing up, getting those words down, and returning to the page again and again. Each round of revisions helps you dig deeper, and that's where the real magic happens.
2. Comparison Culture
With the rise of social media, the trap of comparison has never been easier to fall into. We scroll through Instagram, TikTok, and other platforms, watching authors thrive, and it's easy to feel like we're falling behind.
"I should be posting more. Should I do a Kickstarter? She had how many beta readers? How did they go viral, and I can't even get noticed?"
While it's natural to have these thoughts, staying stuck in them can keep you from moving forward. Every writer has a unique voice, brand, and niche. No two authors are the same, and that’s something to embrace.
You might not be the next crime novelist, but maybe you’ve got a knack for writing steamy romances (you know exactly what I mean!). Or maybe, like me, you’re deep in the trenches of writing clean fantasy, but your vibe leans more toward a dark, mystery-thriller set in a cabin in the woods.
The key here is: you have a unique voice. Trying to copy someone else’s success or path won’t serve you. It will only trap you. You can’t compare someone’s Year 5 to your Year 1. You’re on your own journey, and that's something worth celebrating.
Conclusion
Self-doubt is a part of every writer's journey, but it doesn’t have to stop you. Understanding that creativity is a process and that comparison is a thief of joy can help you embrace your unique path. Remember, the only competition you have is with yourself—and your potential is limitless.
If you’re ready to overcome self-doubt and build sustainable writing habits, I’d love to help. Check out my Aspiring Author's Toolkit, which is designed to guide you through the challenges of the writing process and help you stay on track. Inside, you'll find practical tips, resources, and encouragement to help you grow as a writer and build the writing routine that works for YOU.
You’ve got this. Don’t let self-doubt stand in your way!
[Link to Aspiring Author's Toolkit]
